Dedicated to the memory of Caroline Anne Wheatcroft

Born in Edinburgh on 26 July 1954, Caroline Anne Wheatcroft, née Pavely, lived a life characterised by dance, creativity and caring for other people. Known affectionately as “twinkle toes” by her father, on leaving Didcot Grammar School she attended the Royal Ballet School in London, training to be a teacher. Following a period touring Europe, she subsequently moved back to Scotland where she established ‘The Pavely School of Dancing’, which had several bases across Livingston. During this time, she met her lifelong love George. They married on 12 July 1980 in Brightwell-cum-Sotwell, near her family home in Wallingford. George’s work eventually led the couple to settle in Park Street, to the dismay of many in the dance community in Scotland. It was here she re-established her school, continuing to teach many people to dance, giving a good number their first experience of highly creative staged productions. Many of her former pupils went on to be successful within their chosen field of work, buoyed by the confidence that she helped develop.

It was during this time that she also began to volunteer for Park Street C of E Primary School as a parent-helper, eventually becoming employed as a teaching assistant. She remained a popular member of staff until her final short illness prevented her from working. Within the time she volunteered at the school she was forced by medical complications in her foot to stop dancing and to sell her school. She continued to find opportunities for creativity in her work at Park Street School, sharing jokes with the children and always maintaining a sunny disposition. It was in this period that a persistent cough developed, which was ultimately diagnosed as Primary Immunodeficiency Syndrome (PID), a condition she managed for the remainder of her life.

Keen to provide support for her children in their study and early professional life, Caroline took on part time work at Aylett Nurseries. Her good nature and sense of fun continued to shine through in this new setting, sharing good rapport with both staff and customers alike.

Outside of her working life, Caroline thrived by being in community with other people. For several years she danced with the Cottonmill Clog Morris side, adjudicated local athletics meets as a qualified UK field official, and regularly attended church at Spicer Street Evangelical Church, and then Marshalswick Church (now Ridgeway Church) before returning to worship in St Albans city centre. In the village of Park Street, she knew a great many residents, regularly seeking to provide help and support for her immediate neighbours. She ensured her dance medleys, both in Scotland and Park Street, always raised money for good causes, including individuals in need and well-known charities. Her generosity was unabated until the end, insisting on purchasing her granddaughter’s first pair of shoes the week before she was admitted to hospital. Throughout her final days she continued to love everyone “to bits.”

Now firmly held in the loving arms of her Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, she is survived by George, her children Sarah and Andrew and her grandchildren Emily-Jane and Aidan.

  

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I've looked for Miss Pavely many times but her name has never appeared until my search today. I am going to tap tonight and was explaining how I became a lifelong dancer. It was the 70s when I peeked into the hall of Letham Bowling Club after hearing the piano. I saw the little ballerinas with Miss Pavely instructing them. After much persuasion my Mum allowed to me to go to. I walked up to Pumpherston Primary every week for ballet class. I idolised her. My heart broke the the day she sat a few of us down in her flat in Bellsquarry and told us she was leaving. I continued ballet for a while but the new teacher was not a patch on Miss Pavely. I returned again to ballet after a chance meeting with her pianist who pointed me to adult ballet. I have continued to love music and dance into my 50s. I am so pleased to see that she had 40 years of happy marriage and touched as many others as she touched me. So sad that was her passing has led me to find her after all these years. RIP xxx
Katrina Angus
1st September 2022
On my 3rd since (or our 42nd) wedding anniversary of marriage to Caroline Wheatcroft, many thanks to everyone who was able to attend her Thanksgiving Service on Saturday 7th May 2022. Grandma would be “over the moon” with her new grandson Aidan Benedict Thompson born on Wednesday 9th March 2022 and to her son-in-law Ben Thompson’s Ordination of Deacon in the Diocese of Bristol on Sunday 7th May 2022. Further looking forward with God’s blessing to our shared family wedding of Andrew Timothy Wheatcroft to Sadie Etherton on Saturday 24th September 2022. Still not found our full wedding album yet but these 2 photographs are taken from the “extras” album - before and after our wedding vows.
George
12th July 2022
Another Wedding Anniversary (41st or 2nd) today 12th July 2021 without a day going by without reflecting upon God's blessing on our marriage. I have just joined a Facebook page for Cottonmill Clog Morris and attached a photo of Caroline dancing (I am playing my piano accordion) in Dijon 1994 as guests during an international dance festival - a competition for national dance teams. Caroline loved clog dancing despite problems with her feet for many happy years around the UK. She always expressed her zest for life with a smile through dancing, music, poetry and art on every occasion in all walks of life. There was never a dull moment in conversation, silence being impossible, with playful tomfoolery sorely missed.
George
12th July 2021
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